Planning a wedding is a first-time experience for most people. Not everything can be done perfectly the first time. When planning the wedding, there is also the timeline that you have to keep in mind, apart from looking for other things like the venue, caterers, and wedding tent rentals. Here is what a typical wedding reception timeline looks like.
How Long Is A Wedding Reception?
This can vary from person to person, as well as the venue you’re choosing. Sometimes, you will have a lot of time to wrap the ceremony up and other times, you will have to fit everything in an allocated time slot.
Generally, wedding receptions last anywhere from 4 to 5 hours. The majority of the time is spent in food, pictures, dances, and speeches and the rest is just all fun, games, mingling, and other things that make your wedding reception unique.
Sometimes, a wedding reception plus the main ceremony of vows can be wrapped up in less than 6 hours, but that is only valid when the ceremony venue and the reception venue are close to each other. If you’re traveling far to reach the reception, then you will have to have some more time to spare.
The General Timeline Of A Wedding Reception
Here is a breakdown of what a wedding reception looks like, with all of the things involved.
The Gathering Of Guests
The first thing that usually occurs after the ceremony, when you guys say “I do” is the transportation from the ceremony venue to the reception venue. The guests will make their way to the reception venue while you and your spouse can have some pictures taken. The guests, including the couple’s parents, are the first ones to arrive at the venue and then make introductions, talk to each other, and settle.
This will usually take anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour – maybe even more if the distance between the reception venue and the ceremony chapel is greater and you also have to consider traffic and rush hours if you’re driving.
Cocktail Hour
This can occur either right after the ceremony or at the reception. The choice is up to you and as the name suggests, the cocktail hour usually only lasts about an hour. The goal isn’t to get hammered drunk.
You want the guests to be able to let loose and have a good time, but you don’t necessarily want everyone to down shot after shot at the wedding. Most people might think that an hour is not enough, but you’ll know that it’s more than enough.
The Grand Entrance
Once the guests are settled and it is time for the bride and groom to enter the reception, there is something called the entrance that happens. This is basically the bride and groom walking into the reception area hand in hand as a newlywed couple.
This can take anywhere between 5 and 15 minutes. It is not something that is really that much time-consuming and, in the meantime, there are pictures being taken too, of the couple as well as the guests, so you can easily fit this into your timeline if you think that you have very little time and a lot to do. You will get done in no time.
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The Dances
After the bride and groom enter the reception area, the next thing that usually follows is a round of dances. First of all, the main couple will have their first dance and then the other guests can join in. This is typically an hour long, but there is no exact cap on the time.
It can be as long or as short as you want. If you guys don’t want to go for a first dance, then that is okay too. Not a lot of people are fans of dancing and it is a mutual decision for the couple to cut the dance altogether from the reception. So, if that is what you want to do too, then go ham.
Dinner
Next up is probably the most anticipated thing in an entire wedding reception and that is the food. After the dances and sometimes, before the speeches, the dinner buffet is the one to follow. It goes on for the entirety of the event until the speeches commence, so you can allocate about 2 hours max for this. But it can also get wrapped up quickly if you want to leave some time and room for other things.
Keep in mind the wedding venue when choosing a menu. Outdoor weddings need a menu that has simpler items.
Speeches
Following the dinner are the wedding speeches, and depending on how many people are giving speeches, it should last about 30 minutes to an hour max. The speeches are generally really short and that is encouraged, because you want as many people to fit into this allocated time.
In most cases, it is usually the maid of honor and the best man whose speeches are mandatory and then the couple’s parents and give or take a few people more who want to wish the couple well. If you want to omit speeches altogether, then you can have a well-wishing journal or diary in which every guest can write down their wishes and hopes for the couple.
Dessert/Cake Time
After dinner and speeches, the next thing that is up in line is the cake or dessert – whatever you’re doing. If you’re having a cake-cutting ceremony, then you will need about 15 to 20 minutes for the couple to cut the cake and then the serving will start simultaneously and the guests can enjoy the dessert time to the max too.
Pictures will be taken in the background throughout the wedding and this is usually near the end of the wedding reception.
More Pictures & Dancing
This isn’t mandatory per se, but after the cake cutting or dessert and if there is some more time left, then the guests can also dance some more. If you’re doing the same at your wedding too, you can go for a more chill and laid-back dance session with your friends. It can be very on beat too, since the official dance is over.
If you don’t want to do that, you can have a couple of bite-sized activities like pictures with the rest of the guests, meeting the guests properly, and even playing some wedding-themed games to fill up that time gap.
The Exit
Lastly, is sending the couple off, or the exit as it is normally called. This is similar to the entrance, but this time, the couple leaves the reception, marking the end of the wedding, and they ride off into the sunset, or wherever they’re headed.
At this point, the guests will flank the couple and bid farewell to the newlyweds. This takes less than 10 minutes and after this, the wedding is pretty much done and dusted. That’s how a normal wedding timeline goes.
Conclusion
The wedding reception timeline might be something that you think you won’t need to spend a lot of time on, but once you do figure it out, you will have it down in no time and it will help streamline all the things. Share it with the venue, wedding party rentals Clarksburg, and other vendors as well if needed.


